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6 Ways Your Child Can Start Sleeping Better Tonight

Infant Sleep

Want to know the secret recipe for getting your baby to sleep through the night? So does every other parent of a little one. But there is no secret formula for baby’s sleeping through the night.

However, there are simple, strategic steps you can take to move in that direction. Getting your baby to sleep all night long requires some simple planning all day long.

Here are 6 baby sleep tips you can try today to help your baby sleep better.

Baby Sleep Tip #1: Don’t Be Awake Too Long

Did you know that being tired is one of the biggest enemies of sleep? That’s right; your wee one can actually be too tired to drift off into dreamland.

And it happens more quickly than you might realize. Here are some general guidelines for the amount of awake time your little one should have between sleep times:

  • Newborns (0-6 weeks): 45 minutes of awake time
  • 7-12 weeks: 60-90 minutes of awake time
  • 3-5 months: 2 hours of awake time
  • 6-8 months: 3-3.5 hours of awake time
  • 9-12 months: 3-4 hours of awake time
  • 13 months to 2.5 years: 5-6 hours of awake time

So how do you make this happen? You put your child down for a nap before they are too tired and desperately need it. That will help at bedtime as well.

Baby Sleep Tip #2: Eliminate The Feeding-Sleeping Association

Feeding-sleeping association is pretty common amongst babies over 3 months old. They are used to nursing or bottle feeding to sleep, especially since it is impossible to separate the two in those early weeks of baby’s life.

But that works against you in the wee hours of the night when they wake up and need that same comfort to fall back to sleep, because feeding and sleeping are inseparable partners in their mind.

By feeding your child right after  nap time and at the start of the bedtime routine, you help break that feeding to sleep association and ensure that baby has full belly for a longer stretch of sleep at night. With consistency, your baby will begin to be able to fall back asleep when they wake up between sleep cycles.

Baby Sleep Tip #3: Be Predictable & Boring

You’ve probably noticed that your little one loves a routine. Routines provide a reliable rhythm to their day and offers comfort. Doing the same things in the same order is security.

By creating a predictable rhythm for your baby in the 20-30 minutes before sleep every bedtime lets them know sleep time is coming and helps prepare them for it.

For instance, have a bottle or nurse, take a warm bath, get in jammies, read a story, and say goodnight. Just like that, the same way at the same time each day.

And keep it boring. No extra excitement before bed. If your little one tries to “play” with you by throwing stuffed animals on the floor or running away when you’re about to rock with a book, don’t play back.

Those final 5 minutes before bed should be particularly calming, too.

Baby Sleep Tip #4: Keep It Dark

Our bodies know that we sleep when it’s dark because that’s the natural order of things. So whether it’s nap time or bedtime, keep your baby’s room as dark as possible.

Consider blackout curtains and blinds, but also be aware the nightlights and clocks that glow can also disrupt sleep.

Teaching your baby from the get go that the dark is a great place to rest will help them keep this habit as they get older. Little ones who nap in a dark room will nap better and longer, as well.

Baby Sleep Tip #5: Consistent Time & Place

Just like your child does best with a predictable routine, your baby will sleep through the night better if he is sleeping in the same place at the same time, too.

Your child should be able to know “sleep happens here,” regardless of nap time or bedtime. Try to avoid sleeping in stroller, car seats, or your arms if you want them to sleep well, longer, and fall asleep better.

Also, they will ideally fall asleep where they’ll stay asleep. That will alleviate any shock from falling asleep in Mama’s arms and waking up in a different place.

Baby Sleep Tip #6: Understand Sleep Cycles

A sleep cycle lasts approximately 45 minutes and it’s normal to wake up at the end of each one. For adults, that awake moment is so slight they won’t even remember it in the morning.

But for a baby? Well, it can be hard to fall back to sleep. And if they aren’t used to self-soothing in any way and instead rely on your to rock or feed them to sleep, they’ll cry for you at those times when ideally they could fall back to sleep.

When you’re working on helping them sleep better, it can help to pause and observe your baby first. Are they changing positions? Are they self-soothing in order to lengthen their nap? In time, he will learn to settle back to sleep on his own.

If you start applying these six simple steps today, your baby can start sleeping better tonight.